Research shows intellective development wants before it is too late, if the basic skill of mental 3 years old before activity can get due growth, the education of later period obtains favorable result hard, missed cannot make up for. But this conclusion that this cannot reach later period education is to disable.

1 by accident

Intellective development has been jumped over earlier, learned thing has been jumped over more more
　　
Clever clever 3 years old, clever clever Mom feels darling age jumps over little power of understanding taller, much thing learning a dot has profit, signed up for spoken English class and piano class to her then, but clever clever not feel grateful, roughhouse wants one time before attending class every time. Finally always is mom expends idea to fool her a long time to just go. For this mom very helpless: This still is not for the daughter in the future consider, how so pay no attention to solution?

Dou Youying of a lot of parents clever Mom such idea, think darling age is small, learn a thing fast, make him much learn a dot with respect to this.

Of course, research shows intellective development wants before it is too late, if the basic skill of mental 3 years old before activity can get due growth, the education of later period obtains favorable result hard, missed cannot make up for. But this conclusion that this cannot reach later period education is to disable.

Inchoate education key is timely and measurable, be not had jumped over earlier, also be not it is good to learn morer to jump over. When to learn? What to learn? The key should see the development level of darling and interest. The childhood that is eager to hope for success can letting belong to darling only is depressed, the nature is strangled. This kind of pursuant formula that ignores darling nature to grow is taught, benefit is temporary, fall victim is forever. The maturity of darling, grow have a process, the speed of this process because of the person different, because of the environment different. You should respect this fact, await the arrival of this process patiently. If ignore this course, it is to spoil things by excessive enthusiasm, more haste,less speed.
　　
2 by accident

It is better that knowledge exceeds much result darling is cleverer
　　
Friend friend is very clever, in nursery school, he is teachers are accepted " nickname for Wu Yong " . Relative to Yu Tongling's child, friend friend often is shown different and general " experienced " , not quite resemble him the child of this age level. What is discipline of small off year like to be met, what be like not to like again. Still having a bit is friend friend special it is a center with ego, cool to the person, get along not easily with the person.

A lot of mom think, inchoate education is the most important is intellective development, such later darling ability takes an examination of high component, enter a school. Then, pay close attention to darling only " visible intellective development " , wait like expression of literacy, computation, language, and the human concern ability, ability that contacts nature and introspective ability often suffer negligence. Friend friend is a model case. Investigate discovery, the family that has 90% above places on a par the study of education and darling, think the achievement of study is educational effect. Then darling begins knowledge word 1 year old, 3 years old begin to learn a foreign language, 3 ～ darling of 6 years old 90% attend all sorts of grooming class.
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