Small stick person

1, help above all introvert, the darling of bad performance increases the capacity of oneself, the length that observe and uses darling build its self-confidence, use the self-confident development that builds short.

2, the issue that does not force darling to do him not to like, search the intent of darling, encourage darling to produce opinion, let darling work according to his interest and idea. According to the individual character characteristic of darling, executive guidance is politic.

3, the mobile kind that allows darling him option goes interacting with other darling.

Of course, do not want to spoil things by excessive enthusiasm, should know " desire fast and do not amount to " , education needs to await sometimes. Introvert, not to be pooh-poohed is behaved, it is everybody the process that experience wants in growing, the key is to should make darling sufficient in the activity experience successful joy. Proper setback can promote darling firm disposition more, the parent also should let darling fill attend this one class.

Correct and revulsive " can win only cannot be defeated " darling

General situation parent can be adopted indulge, apolaustic manner, afraid darling gets angry. Every time play chess parent is defeated by a chess intentionally, or think darling disposition is not firm, do not have prospect, thereby rebuke darling. Little imagine is met so of abet darling bilious, make darling cannot control his emotion correctly, occurrence anger of more wanton ground, termagancy and aggressive sex, firm disposition more have no way is mentioned. As a result of darling overbearing, can affect the following human truck badly.

Small stick person

1, let darling know be defeated with winning is very common thing, should learn to face it.

Relate a few stories that behave brave, firm tone to darling more in the life, be like " needle of embroider of iron beetle wear " , " Ma elegant adventure is written down " , " the story of Xie Jun aunt " etc, let darling know, be defeated with regular meeting of the classics in our life comes up against win. Be defeated to remove ability to win only case.

2, let darling learn to resolve contradiction with mediatory method through talking things over.

When darling produces contradictory conflict because of playing a chess, want to provide the environment that solves a problem to darling, the word that allows him to want to say through oneself and behavior go resolving the issue of themselves, continue in order to achieve both sides the purpose of game.

3, through moving the method of affection, let darling learn to experience the feeling of others.

To the baby with little age, adopt move it is very clever that the method of affection teachs them. To can beating the baby that cannot lose only, the parent can win chess hind in the child, adopt the method of cool child intentionally, tell darling explicitly: "You are defeated by a chess grouchy, we are defeated by a chess very joyless also, if always let others letting you, although won, others also looks down on you. " this kind of method can overcome darling egocentric tendency, can control undesirable affective effectively to happen after be defeated by a chess.
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