Treat the baby with cowardly disposition correctly

The child sufferred others bully, most parent can make the following response:

Tell oneself child: "Who hits you, who do you hit, he hits your where, you hit his where " ; is getting the child to arrive in the child home that bullies a person, look for the parent to say clear. Tell the child: Bad news of 8  Zou is contrary to? of  of Suo of  of post  of Cui of  courtyard an ancient wind instrument is big to his child send its fire, him example the child is incompetent, say angrily: "Who bullies you after, you tell a teacher " ; develops the past immediately, do one's best achieves the goal of gally child through teaching deceiver a lesson, make its dare not bully its beloved baby again.

A variety of ways of above are not quite good, its malpractice has: The friendly association; that goes against cheeper can make other parent very awkward, lane is bad, can cause a parent between " have a verbal battle with " ; lets the child adopt evasive method, and do not guide with active accurate method, go against the formation of cheeper independent character, make no matter cheeper nurturance encounters the habit that what thing appeals to be solved at the parent.

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1, delay parent delay one pace, see darling prepare how to do first, let darling learn care another person in association, restrain selfishness, protect oneself to wait. The parent should understand above all, association also is need study, and this kind of study should rely on darling to experience the ability after experiencing to get quite personally. From the point of the person's instinct, impossible also over and over again suffers little baby to others is bullied and do not give backstroke, getting the course that bully also is one kind is accumulated, the parent must not suffer bully regarded darling as to suffer grievance.

2, fine attentive on the basis that understands him darling help teachs darling, should encourage him what want those who teach him good-tempered; clumsy of speech to want to teach him to explain white; disposition is timid of good bear grudges to bring a lawsuit against etc.

3, encourage strike back timid to disposition darling, such doing is not to teach him to bully others, protect oneself better however, achieve check in time the companion is undesirable the purpose of behavior.

4, play an only son with the companion more female lack can form selfishness with age person association, dissocial disposition. Far-sighted parent can try hard to rear the child certainly " Le Qun sex " .

Anyhow, in the life the parent tolerates termlessly and can cause the child eat one's head off fondly, of the character of undesirable individual character such as egoistic, overbearing monkey business form. The characteristic of coddle certainly is unprincipled ground good-tempered. Reach from this, if be opposite child exorbitant appeasement, can make the child forms ego to be a center so. Such darling often cowardly, lack sympathizes with feebleminded, disposition heart, they are in collective environment or be hard be gregarious, or it is difficult with all round the person is harmonious. Accordingly, want to develop the disposition of darling adamancy, be about to transform breeding idea of the parent, manner and behavior, adopt the effective method of because of the person different, firm baby just can be born.
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