Xiaolong is a be worthy of the name " small Xiang Yu the Conqueror " , when playing to the outside, not be to overturn adjacent home little sister, it is one foot is kicked cry bigger than him little elder brother, mom always keeps dealing with the disaster of small Long Chuang, him Ke Xiaolong is connected " I am sorry " do not say.

, father takes Xiaolong to reach uncle home be a guest, xiaolong and little sister play together " play house " , playing, two people rise to who acts a police and make a noise, xiaolong overturns the little sister, the little sister is crying to bring a lawsuit against to Xiaolong's father: "He bullies me! " father pulls Guo Xiaolong to want him to apologize to the little sister, xiaolong does not talk. Soon father extends a hand to be about to hit his, xiaolong is pulling long sound ill-affectedly to say: "I am wrong, hum! " look at the about that Xiaolong does not know a fault one pair, father is really enrage urgently again again.

The expert diagnoses:

Cheeper often lacks consciousness of dispute idea, responsibility and ego pilot capacity, the wrong understanding that makes to oneself is insufficient, do not know to correct. As morality the advanced affective such as feeling, ashamed feeling develops, cheeper will learn to know a fault to change gradually. Parents should treat the mistake that child place makes correctly, avoid to use scold, press wait for rough way, this won't help cheeper know an error not only, can hurt the proper pride of cheeper instead.

Instruct you a few court:

1, let darling learn to acknowledge a mistake. Darling apologizes without the society, because do not understand dispute concept,the likelihood is, the what in knowing the life is right, what is wrong, why be wrong, more do not know how oneself should correct an error. Accordingly, parents must not be blamed at every turn to darling, should tell darling patiently why wrong, where is the fault.

The courage with acknowledge a mistake certain need. Darling dare not acknowledge a mistake, the likelihood is to fear to bear consequence, parents should give darling a kind of safe sense, tell darling everybody has when making a mistake, should changing only is good darling, avoid darling to produce awe-stricken move.

2, darling errs should correct in time. When darling err thing, parents should offer education in time and correct, letting darling know an error cannot be not rescued, should have changed only, can get excusing. Parents must not be in darling err after the event, blindly criticism, censure darling, bring about baby generation so easily to go against turn over psychology, when erring later, always can want to look for excuse to plead.

Apologize to knowing but the darling that errs often again, parents should notice the utterance of darling apologizes not only, should pay close attention to darling to correct wrong action more. Accordingly, if why handle the method that darling place makes a mistake, the mistake that makes than darling is worth parents to think more.
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