We understand, one part is knowledgeability, look be like " small prodigy " the child, because provide for oneself,ability, truck capacity is deficient in, become get used to the child with the poorest ability.

Phenomenon: Have a meal not to agree to go up all the time desk

Mr. Chen of some nursery school introduces, the boy that there is a shellfish making a surname this year enters their nursery school a month, disaccord child lets sb know, make game. Other little girl is done when holding, he however a person stays on corridor to play; Classmates attend class in the classroom, surround cheerfully into semicircle, he sits alonely however in the corner. When having a meal, do not agree to go up all the time desk, it is teacher bit by bit is fed, oneself do not take ladle.

Bei Bei's mom is a full-time mother, use whole idea on child body, take care of to the child on the life meticulously, the child an eyes, mom knows what the son wants, talk with the child far from. On intelligent development, this parent also very concentrate one's efforts, to child taletelling, read children's song, teach the child back ancient poetry, child comparing is the same as age person " clever " a lot of... but because be in for a long time of the mother excessive caress next growing, bei Bei is not known how to get along with other little girl, also not be willing to get along with the child, in a week when begin garden, shellfish shellfish mom wants for company son to stay in nursery school together even.

Mom of shellfish of the shellfish in communication thinks, it is the child before learning a few years the level with grow very important, must lay good foundation, make the child banner one pace, so she thinks method to develop the child's intelligence, it is good to let the child can have germinant. Set prescription scale is raised in the habit, shellfish shellfish mom thinks, clad, have a meal, make game with other little girl these are " success will come when conditions are ripe " thing, the nature after the child is grown can be done, still should make the best of time so, stress the intellective potential that develops the child.

Viewpoint: Good convention excels mug book

Be engaged in the teacher that children education works analysing, the problem of shellfish shellfish mom mirrorred a lot of parents to be in the error of inchoate education field.

Above all, a lot of parents notice too much 0, 6 years old of important period that are intellective development, but the education that behavior is used to actually very important also, truck capacity, expression ability, provide for oneself the deficiency of the respect such as ability, can create child capacity low. Grow this, see those who seem petty thing " won't oneself have a meal " , " all sorts of activities that do not participate in a child " etc, can make the child produces psychological load, feel oneself are differred than others everywhere, cannot blend in with age person in, lose self-confident heart gradually, carry to what do not remove interest to come. In education of the children before learning, ability education should get attention more than intellective education, inchoate education begins earlier to had been jumped over to child ability and the education that are used to nurturance. And at present child of requirement of premature, overmuch ground learns many parents all sorts of knowledge, the health that goes against cheeper body and mind so develops.
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