(One) establish kiss correctly child view and domestic education view

The parent should learn to respect cheeper. The parent cannot regard cheeper as oneself adjunct or demesne belongings, expectation realizes the desire that he fails to come true and ideal through cheeper, go compensating oneself to live to be short of regret mediumly. Cheeper is independent, conscious, those who have an idea is individual, the respect that should get the parent and equality are treated. Respecting cheeper just is parents' deepest love.

The parent wants to pay attention to cheeper today. The development of cheeper is natural, have level, those who have the law, what parental place should do is to follow this one pattern, guide cheeper heart stage by stage on the foundation from the interest that values cheeper, individual character wisdom body beauty develops in the round. However a lot of parent considerations are most is cheeper tomorrow will how. A lot of be anxious to not hesitate with impatient parent too the energy with much expenditure and financial capacity, fill the time of cheeper completely with interest class, with sacrificial cheeper exchange happiness of so called " today for cost tomorrow " . Actually, this kind of practice is very unwise. Of cheeper grow to be in above all today, if we with sacrificial cheeper be exchanged today for cost tomorrow, that consequence can resemble Lu Suosuo of law state religion Home Yo saying only in that way, "Can cause precocity of a few fructification, they grow both neither is plumply not melting also, and can decay very quickly " . Because of this care cheeper, not be to give cheeper garment to stretch one's hand, the meal comes the " satisfaction " of dehisce, also not be to use training of all sorts of so called knowledge, ability to oppress cheeper, and the rule that should develop according to cheeper body and mind gives scientific guiding, give cheeper sufficient esteem and freedom, let cheeper enjoy pleasure in growing naturally, independent volitional character and sound moral quality are formed in daily life.

(2) effort study, the culture that raises oneself ceaselessly is cultural

Many parents think his literacy knowledge standard is wrong, some even big character does not know a few, abandoned the responsibility that the family teachs, be equal the duty of own parent at baby-sitter, the garment that just is in charge of cheeper, feed, live, the life need such as travel is enough. Actually, the parent just is cheeper allow teacher, domestic education grows in cheeper in having crucial effect. The parent should reinforce culture of the thought of oneself, moral character, culture, learn the technical knowledge of preschool education, strengthen the communication with nursery school teacher and communication, form the education with family and powerful nursery school to be united in wedlock, make cheeper gets the edification of all-around, much channel and education. Relevant research proves, cheeper family teachs the on any account of quality, related to the discretion of parental quality and culture level.
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