If I tell you, as the child's guardian, you misunderstood the child in a lot of moment, the words and deeds on this foundation harmed the child deeply, and investigate its reason, it is you did not listen attentively to the child well, can you believe?

Very may much parent objects. The child cries in swaddle, no matter mom sleeps much riper sleep lightly immediately. The child coughs, no matter what is father doing to close for it instantly buy the clothes. We and child news news are interlinked, how can be you listened attentively to? Actually, be corporeal level only then listen attentively to, to child spirit level call, inner demand, you however oversight. What thinking in child heart, complete by parent assume sth as a matter of course. Come so, the parent advises in earnest it may not be a bad idea, it may not be a bad idea of lukewarm talk soft words, it may not be a bad idea of thunder be furious, became choose the wrong audience completely, not only do not have the least bit and positive effect, increased the child's anguish instead, cause more intense go against instead with defy. I think, this is the main reason that a lot of children jump over a canal to glide more.

Listen attentively to, just as its name implies, be bend forward next bodies, side is too very auditive hear talk of the other side seriously. Listen attentively to the word of the other side seriously only, ability enters area of language of the other side, understand idea of the other side. Very puerile still to psychology flimsy child, need to pay special patience to listen attentively to them more, unscramble them.

Some moment, because of the limitation of the age and ability, the child does not have method to amount to his demand clarity the earth's surface come out, need the parent to go to the heart experiencing than a person's mind more so; May not misses some things child so clearly at that time, so need parent includes; Some words child dare not say or flat say irony, so need parent be considerate replaces child consider; Some words child does not have expression at all, pass however silent, escape, cry, labyrinthian the earth's surface amounts to the unusual action such as draw well, violent rage come out, need the parent to lower stance more so, control impulse, contact around case, make clear true psychology of the child. Dear parent, when you by so childish that quiver all over when, can ever you think of you are misunderstanding the child probably?

The society listens attentively to the child, it is the child those who grow is intense long for, also be the crucial place that the family teachs. Put down figure, means of thinking of adult of slam the door, the eye that learning to use the child goes viewing the world, go pondering over a problem, go following child communication with cordial and gentle state of mind. When you and child heart heart are interlinked, see a problem can be close to consistent, the child can inspect you to be true friend.