Respecting mental health is taught, people considers as the responsibility of the school generally, the impact of mental health condition that actually the family teachs pair of children is bigger. In a lot of families, what the parent often pays attention to is the child is healthy the study result with the child, and oversight the child's mental health, a lot of children are occurrence fear of different level land, so bashful, close, go against instead, the unusual psychology such as hostility, if this kind of unusual psychology does not guide well, can affect the child's study and health. Parents is the child allow teacher, want to make the child has good psychological quality, must use 3 kinds " heart " will treat the child.

One, valued heart

Parental the domestic atmosphere that should be good at building democratic, comfortable, harmony. Want to have firm demand already to the child, understanding, esteem, can trustful child. Live besides what care the child at ordinary times outside, the place that should know the child more thinks of place to want, be needed what to beg. Parents should put the child in as equal as oneself status, think the child is too small not always, what thing does not understand, accordingly, everything is by parents the decision is reached monopolize replace. Parents should discuss more with the child when anything crops up, communicate more, let the child feel him truly (or she) it is a family medium important one, foster him as a child (her) responsibility consciousness. The child also should be respected on study, do not force oneself hobby, desire the child, should value the child's interest, produce the child's specialty and try to guide correctly. The child from love, esteem and understanding get over there parents, also meet parents of respect, love and esteem conversely, also be only in comfortable, harmonious family atmosphere, child ability health grows.

2, common heart

Parents should have common heart to the child's development, what should accept the child is ordinary. Modern psychology considers to make clear, one individual grow into useful timber is interaction of intellective element and blame intelligence element the process that has dominant effect in order to be not intellective element. The research of domestic and international expert makes clear, very tall or the person's intelligence is very low is minority, great majority is moderate level. This that is to say, very good or blame intelligence element of the person is very poor also is minority, great majority is general situation. Also obedient normal distributings so intellective element and the most terminative fruit that are not intellective element interaction, very good or very poor is minority, great majority is common person. This was destined is not everybody tried hard to be able to score same success.

So, do not expect to the child exorbitant, should not be in more oral go up to compare the child and outstanding child photograph at will, make child generation self-abased, lose self-confidence.
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