Be in latter-day, a lot of people think, unripe baby is first together " white board " , family and society can ask according to his random is in this white board on daub carve, the mode that a kind of any parents and social hope get fashion into. The delegate of behavior creed school character China is born to allege even: "Give me a dozen perfect babies, and I am OK the special world that in order to breeds them, I can assure to be singled out randomly among them any, the profession of the ability that ignores them, tendency, competence, parents and phyletic, and can train him those who become my place make choice of the special character of any types, for instance doctor, lawyer, artist, big trader even beggar, thief. For instance doctor, lawyer, artist, big trader even beggar, thief..

Actually, china be born is impossible to accomplish this, anybody does not do this, what because infantile itself is not,can hold the post of person daub together is white board, he has his ability, temperament, these conditions can restrict him direction of the following development. Never mention it education becomes what kind of person, it is the manner that parents treats an infant and means, also parental one party can not decide completely!

People thinks all the time previously, the manner that the parent treats an infant and behavior are completely mix by sense of the individual character of parental one party, value, education idea decide to the child's expectation, however, the research of modern psychology makes clear however, this kind of notion is too very. In fact, a lot of experiments had made clear, the temperamental feature of infantile itself is restricting parents to serve infantile manner and kind greatly.

Temperamental type of the baby basically has 3 kinds: Easy model, difficulty and logy model.

Easy model infantile life has the rule, sentiment cheerful, recipient new thing, get used to new requirement of new environment, implementation, nurse consequently it is easier to rise, parents also is willing to be offerred to him more more consideration and caress, the attitude that treats the child is more positive also. These metropolises produce positive effect to parentage, the feeling between promotional parents and child, the baby also can feel he is cared by parents because of this, take seriously, consequently mood, behavior is behaved the metropolis is more active, development also is met more rapid.

Difficulty baby nurses it is more difficult to rise, their life does not have the rule, the sentiment is more negative, they are mixed very hard to the environment parents is satisfied, because this often makes parents feels,be at a loss what to do, think oneself are not competent parents even, perhaps be fed up with to infantile generation, the negative sentiment such as animosity. As time passes, parents can lose patience to the child, they often apply force, hurried child to the child; Perhaps yield to the child, abandon oneself demand; Flat perhaps grouse, blame punishs the child even. . . . . . These metropolises make the child becomes impatient, bewilderment produces animosity to parents even, form an inactive abide ring thereby, these children nurse rise also more " difficult " .
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